Women, what do you really want on a first date?

I went out with a woman on a date, before it she was like the sweetest thing abut afterwards, she is the driest...I didn't try to kiss her or hug or even touch so she won't feel disrespected or forced to anything. Now I have heard guys need to be aggressive, my friend which is a girl has said it, now I want to hear more opinions, what do you really girls want on a first date, please your age with your answer, thank you.